
It seems these days everyone has a friend that is in a band or is a DJ. Picking up an instrument or a set of CD players is not difficult at all; in-fact many rental companies out there can supply you with Professional level gear at a very reasonable price. But when that person offers their "services" for your wedding, you should take cautious steps to avoid potential disaster.
Music is something everyone can enjoy. And with the advent of the iPod, people are making their own playlists or mixes every day. Anyone can put two songs together and call it a mix, but some people go so far as to call themselves DJ's without knowing what it really means to acquire a master level of knowledge of a genre of music. This is very similar to live musicians as well. Learning an instrument and mastering an instrument are two
very different things.
For most musicians, it takes years of practice just to know their instrument well enough to be confident at playing many types of music. Then it take years longer to learn to intricacies of the different genres and styles out there. DJ's also have to learn their equipment and techniques involved; some even say that a DJ's equipment is no different than any musician's instrument.
Eventually, when that DJ or musician becomes talented enough, they may make a leap and try and earn a living using their talents. Such a person should be referred to as a Professional Musician or DJ because of their devotion to their craft. The title Professional carries with it an expectation of higher quality than would otherwise be attainable from just anyone off the street. Because these Professionals have to put their livelihood on the line, it naturally weeds out the best from the worst.
Furthermore, at special events like weddings, your DJ needs to be talented in more realms than
just music. They need to be comfortable with public speaking, as well as event management. These things do not come easily, and is very akin to a Professional Musician learning a new style of music. It takes hard work and dedication; but with a DJ, that time is spent learning from others and experiencing failure first hand. At your wedding, you don't want just someone who brings the right equipment, you want someone who knows how to use it and how to make your event a success.
As part of the stress in planning a wedding, you have to manage a budget of more money than you're used to, plan an event that is probably the largest in your life, and have to ensure all of your family and friends enjoy themselves. Most of us crumble under this pressure, but to make it easier we hire Professional Vendors: Photographers, Caterers, Bakers, Decorators, Florists, and Musicians...sometimes even a DJ. And most of these Professionals charge a lot more money than you expect when starting your wedding planning. This is where the draw to the cheapest vendors becomes the highest.
There is a saying in the Wedding business, and in life, that is:
You get what you pay for. On average, you get a lower service from those who charge less, and a higher service from those who charge more. I want to point out that I'm using the word
service and not
thing. We all know you can compare prices at different stores for the same thing and the one with the lowest price usually wins out. But a
service is something that is very difficult to measure in terms of cost, because life experiences shape these Professionals and are often invaluable to their expertise.
This translates into choosing your vendors and knowing about them before you even meet them. Getting prices from different companies is good to determine how much a service costs, but you will find extremely low and high prices. Be very cautious of a vendor that doesn't have the experience or the references to supplement their low prices.
DJ's often get overlooked as one of
THE most important factors at a wedding, because they control the flow, the feel, and often act as host to the wedding. Not to mention all the meticulous details involved at a wedding that a truly Professional Wedding DJ would be able to assist with.
Cheap DJ's, or the infamous friend who volunteers their services as your DJ, without enough experience and knowledge can actually ruin your wedding and potentially your relationship with them. You don't want to remember your wedding day by how your friends screwed up everyone's names for the Grand Entrance, or how no dancing was able to happen because everything ran so far behind.
On your big day, you want to remember how easy everything flowed, how you got to do exactly what you wanted to do , how fun the dancing was, and how everyone had a great time. This is where a Professional Wedding DJ shines, and where a few hundred dollars difference can lead to a lifetime of great memories...as opposed to the alternative.